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It was on a
Sunday around 11 a.m. when my fire department engine company responded
to a teenage female having difficulty breathing. When we arrived there were
about fifteen people, mostly teenagers, crowded around a girl who was
sitting on the porch hyperventilating.
I was able to determine, from her presentation and history, that
she was not having an asthma attack or other serious respiratory
compromise, but an anxiety attack. For the next 20 minutes I sat
with this girl, coaching her breathing, speaking calmly, holding her
hand—just basic TLC.
Success! Her breathing returned to normal, after which she felt a little
tired, so we had her lie down on a sofa inside. As she lay down,
the girl suddenly told me, "You know, you should come to my
church with me!"
Now, as a person in a position of trust, I have to be careful about what
I say to people while on duty. I also knew it wouldn't take much
to rekindle this girl's anxiety attack; so, smiling, I replied,
"uh, I don't think that would be a very good idea." I
then attempted to change the subject back to her breathing, but she
persisted, adding, "No, really, you should come to my church
with me! It's a wonderful church, it's New Life . . ."
I had to call-in
a report to my base hospital, so I took this moment to do so.
While I was in the next room on the telephone another girl said to me, "Yeah,
we really would like to have you at our church!"
After this second invitation it dawned on me that we had walked into a
Christian group meeting! This wasn't to be the end of it, however.
When I returned to the first girl to give her some final instructions
about "controlling her breathing," she continued with her
mission: "You know, you really do need to come to my
church!" And then, putting her hand on my arm, she added, "It's OK, I used to be a bad person too!"
I was stunned by this insult and asked her if I was a bad person because
I don't go to her church? She immediately responded that she "hadn't
meant it that way." Maybe. In either case, I told
her that I have already been where she is, and have no desire to go
back; and that she has much to learn and I hope one day she comes to
understand that.
What disturbs me most about this event is not what the girl said about
me, but what she said about herself—that she "used to be a bad
person," but now that she accepts Jesus, she's suddenly
"good." Nonsense! She was undoubtedly a
"good person" to begin with, and she would be so regardless of
the religion she professed to, if any at all. While the particular
religious beliefs of these young people may be a great source of
happiness for them, it is a shame that their church leaders teach them
that anyone not believing as they do is "bad" or in need of
“saving.”
We should also
ask why, in accordance with Mark 16:17-18 (1), the “laying-on of hands” by her
Christian friends didn’t help this girl, but the care provided by a
heathen humanitarian did resolve the problem—no miracles required.
Notes:
(1) Mark 16:17-18 -- Faith will bring with it these miracles: believers will drive out demons in my name and speak in strange tongues; if they handle snakes or drink any deadly poison, they will come to no harm; and the sick on whom they lay their hands will recover. (REB)
A Call for people to
Speak-Out!
To all emergency workers: If
you have had similar experiences with religionists in your area, please
take a moment to share it with us!
To all citizens: If you feel
that firefighters, paramedics, or other emergency professionals have in
any way taken advantage of their position of trust in order to evangelize
their religious beliefs upon you or others while on duty, please contact
us and share your story!
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